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Blessings
On 4 April 1875, John received a patriarchal blessing under the hands
of L. H. Hatch, Patriarch at American Fork, Utah County, Utah. Among other
things, John was told that his family would see him as a man of God - that
his name shall be handed down in honorable remembrance and perpetuated
through the lineage of his posterity.
He was admonished to help rear temples and officiate therein and that
he would become a Saviour upon Mount Zion. "Throughout all generations
of time you are called upon to labor for the dead throughout all generations
of time" for he was one of "the family upon whom great things shall be
required." In addition, he was sealed up to "stand at the head of his father's
house." He was promised that his enemies should have no power over him
because of the integrity of his heart. "You shall be blest. No tongue can
describe the magnitude thereof for behold your reward lieth behind the
vail." Nevertheless, he was blessed with the good things of the earth until
his heart was satisfied.
On August 29, 1875 John and Jemima were rebaptized, followed on September
7th by both Keziah, Keziah's sister Ann Paxman, and John's second
wife, Elizabeth. Edward's widow, Elizabeth Cullom, was rebaptized 16 August
1878. (American Fork 1st Ward records FHL 025,557) In 1856,
President Brigham Young had declared "The Saints are dead, and do not drink
at the living fountain. The fire of the Almighty is not in them." His remedy
then for the decline in faithfulness was re-baptism. Members who wished
to remain in the Church were expected to renew their covenants in earnest
- and to show that earnestness by being re-baptized. Adherence to the law
of tithing, the Word of Wisdom, and other gospel principles was prerequisite
to re-baptism. (Truth Will Prevail, p. 214, 215)
Perhaps in this same spirit, John received a second patriarchal blessing
under the hands of another patriarch, William McBride on June 21, 1877
in American Fork. There are a number of parallels to the first blessing
and some expansion on subjects earlier touched upon.
In this second patriarchal blessing, he was reminded that he would be
called to pass through many scenes which would cause him to reflect and
to exercise faith in the Lord Jesus. In addition to preaching the Gospel
he was admonished to "gather in" his kin folks and friends that had been
"numbered with the house of Israel" and bring them to their inheritance
in Zion. He was reminded again of his duty in helping to build temples,
and assist in the redemption of his father's house -- "administer unto
them ordinances and . . . produce their salvation."
In a rather extensive temporal vein, it is interesting to note that
he was to feed "his thousands" in the times of famine. "Help them to build
temples and lead them in all manner of husbandry that they may be able
to sustain themselves. Teach them to sow Bread, build and to plenish .
. . them to bring in thereon of peace on the earth so they" could "sit
under their own vine and fig tree and none dare molest them or make them
afraid."
The power over the elements was again reiterated and expanded upon as
was the necessity to travel much and gather in the sons and daughters of
Jacob. In the powerful parting promise, he was told that if his faith did
not fail, these "words shall not."
These blessings, spoken by two different ordained patriarchs, shed light
on the nobility of a valiant, honest and humble man who sought only to
serve his God and walk in His ordinances and covenants. While John Durrant
left to his family the most elementary of this world's goods, the honor
of his good name and his standing before his Maker are without refute.
The legacy of John Durrant is humbling when viewed in the context
of his living. His determination was to serve the Lord and lead his children
to do likewise and of such single-mindedness he built a successful life.
Although he had been "severely tried," God heard his prayers and acknowledged
him.
A Man of Posterity
Although polygamous family life may seem strange to those who
neither understand nor appreciate the doctrine of plural marriage, still
it was a very workable way of living for early Latter-day Saints. It was
instituted again in the earth by the Lord as part of the promised "restoration
of all things" and the faithful
Saints lived its principles until the Manifesto was issued which rescinded
it. The nature of this family experience was a sweet one in the John Durrant
family. Rose, one of Elizabeth's daughters, wrote the following account:
"My remembrance of Auntie (father's first wife, Jemima Berry
Henson Durrant) is a very sweet one. She was kind and thoughtful of
us and we were taught to be mindful of her. It was a pleasure to be so,
because she returned every kind act so graciously. For instance, she always
stayed up late at night reading or doing beautiful handwork, so in the
morning before I was allowed to practice my music on the organ, I would
rap gently at her door to see if the music would annoy her. Generally she
would tell me that she loved to hear me practice. She was a splendid musician
and always encouraged me to play.
"Our house was a large double one. I remember each spring and fall,
we would ask Auntie which side she preferred, and changed accordingly.
She was subject to sick headaches and would pull the shade at the window
when she was resting. We were taught to walk quietly by her window. These
things were not a trial to us. And now in looking back to those years,
I would not ask for it to be different. Our lives are richer for having
her live with us and the lessons we learned are priceless to us now.
In the early seventies, President Brigham Young gave Isabella Horn a mission
to establish retrenchment associations throughout the Church and in 1876
such an organization was effected in American Fork. Jemima Durrant became
the first president of the Young Ladies Mutual Improvement Association.
She was also the treasurer of the Utah County Silk Industry organization.
"My own mother, Elizabeth Jane Ginger Durrant, was the
second wife of John Durrant. . . . Of her association with the first wife
my mother wrote, `Sister Jemima and myself lived together nearly all our
married lives, under the same roof, with separate apartments. We have endured
many trials, but through it all we were blessed. We never allowed our tongues
to wound each other. We nursed and administered to each other and through
all our weaknesses our great desires were to live according to the principle
we had been privileged to enjoy. Aunt Jemima passed away, August 2 after
a faithful life's service in the Church of God. My life has been enriched
through her fellowship and I hope to prove worthy to meet her.'
My mother's life was one of sacrifice, but not only did she lay up treasures
in heaven, but found happiness in the work of every day. Both of these
mothers were busy women, in the homes and serving their Church. Both were
ready to make happy the members of the family.
Possibly the following words written by my mother will prove this statement:
`Dear Auntie (Aunt Jemima) enjoyed the blessing of raising
our fourth son, Joseph Smith Durrant, until her death. On Friday, December
12, 1886, while washing and dressing the baby, a spirit rested on me and
made it clear to me, Aunt Jemima was to take him as her own, and as if
he had been born to her." He [Joseph] was nineteen years old when Auntie
passed away.
On 22 March, 1884 the East Primary in American Fork was organized with
Elizabeth J. Durrant serving as first counsellor to President Alice S.
Tayor. Later, in December of 1892, the Relief Society met for the purpose
of adopting Articles of Association in order that they might legally hold
title to property. Elizabeth was one of seven directors chosen. Her granddaughter,
Dorothy Sorensen (Mrs. Paul W.) Larsen, recalled Elizabeth's intense interest
in genealogy and temple work. In her later years, she had a satchel filled
with the pinned temple tags from doing proxy work in the temple.
"There was a third mother in our family (Kezia Keys Durrant),
but because she lived farther away, I did not know her so well, but I remember
whenever I went to her home she always gave me something especially nice.
Her children and mother's boys and girls are all one big family of brothers
and sisters. (Our Pioneer Heritage, volume 9, p. 288, 289)
This note was written by Kezia's son, John Henry on 8 March 1952: "I
feel like adding a little more to my mother's brief sketch of life in which
may be of interest to some of . . . [her] kindred. She was very proud in
her makeup, so was her sister, Ann Rushen Paxman whom all of us looked
up to because she with her helpmate reared a wonderful, loving family.
So [we cousins] grew up under the same covenant we were born under. . .
. Mother often read to us as children and faithfully we attended to our
church meetings when we were at home. Mother was thrifty and careful with
what we had. At Christmas we were always surprised and my parents always
had an apple or orange for us, which was considered a special treat in
those days.
. . . . "[My mother had]. . . always . . . a prayer in her heart for
her family. I remember the day brother George died, how bad she must have
felt. I have heard her say when others spoke of rearing a family, they
could not realize the full extent of motherhood until they had the same
experience. I do not recall any time since her family has been married,
when in trouble, mainly sickness, if she was not sick herself, but what
she was there, interested doing all she could to relieve the afflicted.
John was blessed with a large posterity which now numbers in the hundreds.
His first wife, Jemima, had no children. Only four of his children died
before their maturity - George, Katie Jane, a stillborn daughter and Hyrum
Sterling.
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1870
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Born 30 October William Albert "Will" or "Willie"
Married 7 June 1888 Elizabeth or Eliza Conder
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Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1872 |
Born 13 September Arthur Joseph
"Arth"
Married 17 October 1894 Josephine Sophia Joan Peay |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1872 |
20 December John Edward
"Jack"
Married 7 September 1892 Minnie Elizabeth Clara Baxter |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1875 |
12 July John Henry
Married 28 November 1900 Ida Alice Peay |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1876 |
4 October Lorenzo
James "Ren"
Married 19 June 1901 Agnes Priscilla Lewis |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1878 |
6 August George
Died 13 September 1878 of "strong convulsions" |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1879 |
27 June Tryphena Rushen
"Triff"
Married 7 May 1902 Veranus Haws York |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1881 |
18 June Sarah Ann "Sadie"
Married 10 August 1904 Christian Fredrick Wilhelm Olson |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1881 |
17 July Katie Jane Childs
Died 11 August 1890 |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1883 |
20 July Charlotte "Lottie"
Married 8 January 1908 Fredrich William Wood |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1884 |
2 March Joseph Smith "Joe"
Married 28 June 1905 Edith J. Lenora Holding |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1885 |
22 September Lucy Hetty
"Luetta"
Married 12 September 1906 John Wilford Wright |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1885 |
10 October Stillborn daughter |
Mother: Kezia |
| 1888 |
29 April Jemima Berry Henson
"Mima"
Married 25 November 1908 George Emil May |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1893 |
19 November Rosa Emmeline
"Rosa"
Married 15 October 1914 Charles Gaston Hill
Married 1 August 1923 Rulon Anderson Ostler |
Mother: Elizabeth |
| 1896 |
21 February Hyrum Sterling
Died 3 March 1896 |
Mother: Elizabeth |
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