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The scene was a crowded street car in San Francisco. Edin Shaw, the ten year old daughter of the Chief Stewart at San Quentin, and her older sister, Laverne, and her mother were passengers on this street car. Suddenly Edin blurted out; Mama, how long has Daddy been at San Quentin? All of the passengers immediately turned their head and listened. Mrs. Shaw, obviously embarrassed, managed to respond, Oh, he has been a guard there about a year.

To avoid embarrassment such as this, when the San Quentin village people met a stranger they rarely mentioned that they were from San Quentin. If the Where you from? came up the response might start at the vaguest, and most appropriate, location such as this. 

"Where you from?"

"California"

"Which Part?"

 "Northern"

"Whereabouts?"

"San Francisco Bay Area"

"Which Part?"

"North Bay"

"Where?"

"North of the Golden Gate Bridge"

"Where?"

"Marin County"

"Where in Marin?"

"Near San Rafael."or lying "San Rafael."

"Whereabouts?"

Exasperated! "San Quentin."

If, perchance, it got to the Exasperated San Quentin line, the stranger would usually get an odd look on his or her face forming an immediate misconceived idea of disbelief or perhaps, what it’s like to live there. If the conversation could not be diverted the next response, usually, was, “Oh, that’s on the Island in San Francisco Bay.” Our response, “No, that’s Alcatraz. San Quentin is on a peninsula in Marin County.” That line stopped many but not all. Most realized just how little they really knew about the place. If their curiosity continued it may go on to explaining that San Quentin is a state prison not a federal one. And on it might go until the subject could be changed. Rarely did a stranger know the right answers or that there was a village. So to avoid the situation completely San Quentin was not mentioned. The village people were not ashamed to be from San Quentin, far from it. They knew that they were unique but did not want to explain their uniqueness, and correct the misconceptions, with everyone they meet.

Excerpts from:: William J. Duffy, Jr.

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Last Revision March 2001